"A Dad's Point-of-View™"

Bruce Sallan - "A Dad's Point-of-View™" Columnist, Speaker, and Blogger

It's #FaithSunday - what are you doing to Repair the World? I'm spending time in New York and Connecticut with my son -...
Posted by A Dad's Point-of-View on Sunday, October 4, 2015

And, good morning world. Enjoying the view after lightning storms last night. Off to New York for my first visit with my son, who began Pace this year! I think I need a (coffee) refill...
Posted by A Dad's Point-of-View on Friday, October 2, 2015

It's so important to have GRATITUDE. It is the single biggest ingredient to happiness. As I struggle with "life" I try...
Posted by A Dad's Point-of-View on Monday, September 21, 2015

The 14%er is a newsletter for noncustodial parents. The August issue includes news about an App for Divorce, a poem by Edmond Dantes, and resources to strengthen the parent-child bond. Read it at
Posted by Don Mathis on Sunday, August 2, 2015

https://www.facebook.com/TheChildSupportSuperHero
Posted by Dennis Wirth on Saturday, July 18, 2015

My latest article:
Posted by Don Mathis on Tuesday, July 14, 2015

Poetry (Footsteps, by Jennifer Lefkowski), Links to Father's Day Articles, Parents Forced to pay Kids' College Costs,...
Posted by Don Mathis on Tuesday, July 7, 2015

Real Proof of Corruption is Beyond Reasonable Doubt ~ Stare Decisis in Family Courts

Grassroots advocates, public interest attorneys, and legal scholars gathered in October 2011 at the University of Baltimore for the debut symposium of "The Matthew Fogg Symposia On The Vitality of Stare Decisis In America." Convening such a broad and in many ways diverse audience, requires the program series to be worthwhile academically, yet have populist appeal. Towards that end, the event website explains: "It is both scholarly and practical to examine the current vitality of stare decisis as a legal doctrine in America."

POR QUÉ DECIR SÍ A LA CUSTODIA COMPARTIDA

POR QUÉ DECIR SÍ A LA CUSTODIA COMPARTIDA

Disminuye la tristeza y la ansiedad por la pérdida que sufren los niños cuando sus padres se separan; el padre en la custodia compartida no pasa a ser un simple visitador.

Mantiene un contacto estable con toda su red familiar, materna y paterna, importante pilar de apoyo y cariño para el niño.

Desaparecen los conflictos entre adultos por la IGUALDAD que les permite, en el día a día, ejercer su deber como padre/madre, participando en todo lo que tiene que ver con el hijo/a: médico, colegio, actividades, problemas cotidianos, etc.

Desaparecen las maletas, pues hay casos en los que los adultos son los que se mueven al domicilio del niño, aunque la mayoría de las familias necesita dos viviendas en las cuales el niño dispone de todo lo necesario, de forma que no necesite llevar más que libros o similares de forma puntual. Hoy en día, con los regímenes de visitas quincenales + vacaciones de verano + Navidad + semana santa + carnavales, el niño hace constantes cambios con su maleta, pero esto desaparece en el CC porque los dos progenitores tienen el deber de hacer que el niño disponga de todo lo necesario y tenga un espacio propio en casa de mamá y papá.

Beneficia a la famila materna y paterna por extensión, que no tiene que romper los vínculos con los menores, hecho que ocurre hoy en día por el escaso tiempo de visita que tiene el no custodio. Esto mejora los niveles de felicidad y la participación de toda la red familiar del niño.
Reparte y así disminuye la carga de responsabilidad del adulto tradicionalmente custodio, que puede rehacer su vida y continuar con su carrera profesional si lo desea. Esto también aumenta los índices de bienestar familiar y reduce el conflicto.

Reduce la sensación de pérdida del no custodio, en lo referente sobre todo a los hijos (educación, ocio , salud, etc.) y se reduce el sufrimiento emocional.

Reduce el conflicto relativo al reparto de las responsabilidades y respecto a los derechos de las partes, con un diálogo de igual a igual, donde es más sencillo aparcar cuestiones personales y centrarse en el bienestar de los niños. Ambos ejercen la patria potestad, ya que disponen de los medios necesarios (espacio y tiempo). La corresponsabilidad parental se normaliza.

¿Por qué decir NO a que abogados sean elegidos en la Legislatura? Mire explicacion.

False Abuse Allegations in Florida Family Domestic Violence Court

Post by Children's Rights.

False abuse allegations help
Abuse-Excuse.com

 It is amazing what a parent will put their child through just to try to hurt an ex-spouse or in an attempt to gain full custody.

DEFENSE STRATEGIES -- FOR THE FALSELY ACCUSED

Fathers & Families of Boston, April 12, 1999, noted Author and Consultant Dean Tong, offers hard-hitting and timely advise to those unjustly accused of domestic violence, sexual child abuse and 'repressed' memories.

Abuse-Excuse.com ~ LEARN HOW TO:
Choose the most competent attorney for your case
Obtain all evidentiary documents via an aggressive discovery
Quash ex-parte Protection From Abuse orders in timely fashion
Discredit false accusers and the 'experts' who champion the same
Compel the Plaintiff to submit to psychological testing
Recognize the red flags inherent in Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD, Parental *Alienation  Syndrome (PAS), Sexual Allegations In Divorce (SAID), and Recovered Memory Therapy (RMT).

WHY IS THIS A CRITICAL ISSUE?
#StandUpForZoraya #ILoveAndNeedMyDaughter #EndParentalAlienation

Denuncia que la agredieron familiares de su ex pareja y resultó ser un vecino

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 19 hours ago

Sábado, 28 de Septiembre, 2013 El Juzgado de lo Penal ha condenado a una mujer a una multa como autora responsable de un delito de denuncia falsa en grado de tentativa después de que denunciara a dos familiares de su ex pareja de una supuesta agresión hacia ella y su hijo cuando en realidad había sido un vecino. La sentencia considera como hechos probados que el 8 de septiembre de 2010 fue remitido al Juzgado de Instrucción Número 4 de Palencia dos partes de lesiones confeccionados con fecha de 5 de septiembre de 2010 tanto de ella como de su hijo. Tras ser llamada a declarar en nov... more »

Children's Rights Florida

Upcoming Exposé on South Florida's Garbage Family Law Lawyers

Children's Rights Florida

"Parental Alienation, Estrangement, and or Crappy Parenting"

Children's Rights Florida

http://www.mediaradar.org/

Post by SAVE Domestic Violence Legislative Project.

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Daddyless Daughters

Dear Dad,

Even using that word brings up images of pain, lonely nights and years of questioning why I wasn’t enough for you.Always feeling bad when I see some men talking about their children,how they are the best thing that has ever happened to them.Whenever my friends are discussing about their father, I always throw my face to the other side with tears rolling down from my eyes.While I am working to forgive you the question remains: How on earth could you abandon me?

I needed you to help balance out my female-dominated life, be there to give me the talk about boys so that I wouldn’t have to suffer through my current state of bad relationships and empty voids. You were supposed to be the first man to tell me that I’m beautiful and help me to know myself before anyone had the opportunity to label me. I was supposed to be your “little girl”.

I needed you and you didn’t care. How does one sleep at night not knowing if their own flesh and blood is breathing, eating, safe and secure? I’m not sure if your lack of presence was a blessing or a curse. My pain runs deep just like it does for my other sisters and brother you’ve managed to abandon as well. You were the first man to break my heart and I’m struggling to not hate you.

A man that puts himself last does not abandon his family. What would you have lost by being in my life?  Your minimal contribution is an insult to who you could have been to me.

I’m sorry that you missed out on something and someone so great. But I guarantee that I won’t let your actions break me. I pray for my husband to be the father to my children I never had. That my daughters know the comfort of their father’s arms, his voice, his love, his care.

One day I’ll walk down the isle without you again by my side. But then again I’m used to it. Thank you for causing my mom so much pains *tears* Thank you for the pain, because without it I wouldn’t know healing, I wouldn’t know love, I wouldn’t know God.