7 Steps for Managing Awful Opposing Counsel
“Honestly, based on the dealings I’ve had so far, I dislike
the other attorneys more than the opposing spouse! Why do attorneys have to
make everything so personal?”
You’ve had the same experience. The opposing counsel is
making you miserable. You are not alone.
My friend in Florida
asked, “How do you deal with attorneys like that?”
I’ll attempt to answer. However, I’ll warn you now that
there isn’t a secret formula for these situations. There isn’t a perfect
solution for dealing with these difficult humans.
When I’m dealing with one of these lawyers, I assume that
we’re in for the long haul. These folks typically drag out every element of the
case.
How to Never Let Your Clients (Or Opposing Counsel) See You
Sweat
Here’s my advice:
1. Accept it. Accept that they are who they are and that you
can’t change that reality.