Friday

Happy Birthday ~~ #StandupforZoraya

Happy Birthday Zoraya!I Love You More!Tu Papa

Zoraya, The Meaning of Names (1997-5-18)

A name is much more than just a name!

Z is for zip, the quickness in your step!

O is for orderly, a lifelong passion.

R is for rely, everyone's trustworthy friend.

A is for accord, the harmony you spread.

Y is for youthful, your eternal look.

A is for accord, the harmony you spread.

The name “Zoraya” is of Arabic origin and it means “Rich”. It’s a name commonly given to girls.

According to the 1996 U.S. Social Security Administration data, the name “Zoraya” is not a popular baby girl’s name in California. Imagine that, only 6 babies in California have the same name as you in 1996. Across the entire United States a total of only 8 babies also bear the same first name during the same year. From 1880 to 2011, the highest recorded use of the name “Zoraya” was in 2005 with a total of 22 babies.

Since 1880, your name was recorded 308 times in the American baby names history. Do you want to know ‘how popular is my name Zoraya?’

Your name in reverse order is “Ayaroz”. A random rearrangement of the letters in your name (anagram) will give ‘Raaoyz’. (How do you pronounce that?)

Your past life Zoraya:

I do not know how you feel about it, but you were a male in your last earthly incarnation.

You were born somewhere around the territory of USA South-West approximately on 1375.

Your profession was preacher, publisher, scribbler of ancient inscriptions.

Your brief psychological profile in that past life:

Timid, constrained, quiet person.

You had creative talents, waited until that life to be liberated.

Sometimes environment considered you strange.

Lessons that your last past life brought to present:

Your main task – to make the world more beautiful.

Physical and spiritual deserts are just waiting for your touch.

Keep smiling!

Now do you remember?

How Men Grieve - Ken Druck PhD at The Good Men Project - Ken Druck, best-selling author of a book about men, had to learn how to grieve after he lost his own daughter.

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STOP THE HEARTBREAK JUDGE MANNO-SCHURR ~~ 11th Judicial Circuit Family Court... http://bit.ly/1VBlVaG
Posted by David Inguanzo on Monday, October 5, 2015

Happy Birthday Zoraya!Stand Up For Zoraya
Posted by David Inguanzo on Sunday, August 2, 2015

Posted by Children's Rights on Monday, October 5, 2015

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Monday

When a parent is significantly minimized and excluded from a child’s life...

...what do you think children fill that emotional vacuum with?

Hurting dads, hurting kids

Linda Gottlieb Kase LMFT LCSW on ‎Children’s Rights ~

The “expert” witness and the therapist that the alienator hires is generally a psychologist, who not have expertise in family dynamics unless specialized training above and beyond the Ph.D training is obtained. To disqualify the “expert,” the following questions could be asked at trial:

In your professional opinion, on a scale of 1 to 10, with 10 being the highest, what is the influence of parents on children prior to adolescence? (this should be a high #, and if not, the expert/therapist should be asked to justify a low # eg. who has the great influences.)

And after adolescence? (this should be a relatively high # at least)

Do you believe that parental conflict generally has an adverse effect on children and/or causes the child to react negatively in response? Please rate that effect on a scale of 1-10. (this should be a high #, as even the lay person would acknowledge the impact of parental hostility on children. If the expert doesn’t give a high #, he/she should be asked to justify the answer.)

So you would (or would not—depending on prior answers) agree with Christopher Barden, PhD., JD., who has received 2 national research awards in psychology and a law degree with honors from Harvard Law school, when he stated, “There can be no credible controversy about the power of parents to influence children.” (The International Handbook of Parental Alienation Syndrome, p. 420)?

Would you also agree with Barden when he stated that custody cases require “the critical obligation to carefully review the influence of parents, therapists or other adults on the attitudes, beliefs and memories of children.” (pp. 419-432)?

Could you describe what some of these effects are?

Can you give some examples as to how children get caught up in their parents’conflicts.

You have just confirmed that you recognize the great influence of parents on children as well as the detrimental affects on children due to being exposed to the parental conflict. Yet I did not hear you express how you acquired your expertise in family dynamics. In fact, is it true that you are not licensed in your state of X as a Marriage and Family Therapist?

Can you state what training in family dynamics you had in your education for your psychology degree? (I can confirm that they had no more than family therapy 101, IF they had that at all. The LMFT degree, in virtually all states, requires 60 credits, including 2 internships in the provision of family therapy services.)

Are you aware of your X State’s criteria for obtaining this expertise and being qualified as a specialist for the licensing of a marriage and family therapist. How much of that criteria do you meet?

So could you please state how you are qualified as an expert in assessing family dynamics as well as the adverse effects on children resulting from the dysfunctional parental dyad?

What has been your experience in the treatment of families?

Happy Birthday - #ilovemyson

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I Love You Always David,

Dad

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TAKE THE PLEDGE WITH US!

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Family Law: The Root Of The Problem Is This…

One of the huge problems we have in our fight for Family Law Reform is the problem of “enablers”.

We’ve got so many people enabling and empowering the horrific behavior going in within Family Law.

We’ve got lawyers counseling clients that it’s right and good for them to limit or eliminate the relationships between children and NCP’s to gain freedom and child support. We even have lawyers who will subtly coach clients on how to make false allegations to gain an advantage.

We’ve got judges who absolutely detest hearing custody disputes, so they use a variety of direct and indirect methods to make the cost of enforcing visitation prohibitively expensive (child support, litigation, procedure, unequal enforcement of family court orders)

We’ve got court-appointed social workers who are making a killing by mining data the necessary data to support a decision they already know the Court wants to make.

We’ve got supervised parenting services who are actively promoting that during divorce, this service is healthy, when in fact; it’s a very powerful weapon of alienation.

We’ve got politicians who are using Family Law to play political games, spinning public perception away from the truth in order to secure the votes of single mothers, who, are one of the fastest growing demographics.

And last but not least, we’ve got the friends, families, and co-workers of alienating and abusive parents who either directly tell these people what they’re doing is okay, or indirectly do so by looking the other way.

In any case, alienators and abusers keep getting the message: “What you’re doing is right and good. You deserve to be happy. Keep it up!”

There is no other way around it. If we really want change, if we really care about children; we must abandon our need to avoid conflict.

Be mindful and of public opinion, but don’t NEED it. Be wise, not fearful.

If we want change, we have to accept this reality:

Lawyers will not change their behaviors until the Courts change their behaviors.

Courts will not change their behaviors until the Laws are changed.

Laws will not change until the politicians are changed.

And politicians will not change until public opinion changes.

Therefore, we can sit here on pages like this and bitch and moan all day long about our ex’s, the family court industry, courts – all of it.

But we must not deceive ourselves. Change will NOT happen until each and every one of us develops to will, each and every day, to confront the problem.

One cannot escape personal responsibility for our futures, and to do otherwise, makes no different than our opposition. It just provides us with different reasons to be hypocrites.

I will NOT enable you, because I want you to succeed. We are better than them, and we WILL get what we want.

~ Michael

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Friday

There are no empirical or clinical tests to diagnose for mental health disorders.

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Millions of kids and adults are told they're mentally ill and that mental disorders like ADHD or Bi-polar are the same thing as having a medical condition like diabetes or cancer. I've got one thing to say to those pushing this pharmaceutical agenda: Prove it!

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In fact, the cause is most likely due to unhealthy peer relationships and dysfunctional family dynamics.

"The Myth of Mental Health Diagnosis"

"There are no empirical or clinical tests to diagnose for mental health disorders. In fact, the cause is most likely due to unhealthy peer relationships and dysfunctional family dynamics."

Please read the Mental Health Articles and listen to the Podcasts.

We only support organizations who show an understanding that children need both parents, and that either parent is equally capable of the choice to perpetrate hate or declare peace.

La paternidad y el medio ambiente afectan a la producción de células cerebrales: estudio

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 11 hours ago

Viernes, 3 de Mayo, 2013 Un equipo de investigadores del Instituto Hotchkiss Brain (HBI, en sus siglas en inglés) de la Universidad de Calgary, en Canadá, han descubierto que la producción de las células del cerebro adulto puede ser determinada, en parte, por el entorno parental temprano, lo que sugiere que la doble paternidad puede ser más beneficioso que los padres solteros. En su estudio con ratones, vieron que la paternidad y el medio ambiente afectan directamente en la producción de células cerebrales. Los autores creen que aunque todavía no se sabe, es posible que haya efecto... more »

Wednesday

Time to acknowledge the caring moments of fatherhood that often go overlooked

Three quarters of dads say they are responsible for their child's emotional well-being, while only 20% of dads see this role reflected in media. It's time to acknowledge the caring moments of fatherhood that often go overlooked.

This Father's Day, share the "Calls For Dad" film to celebrate with a dad in your life.

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Source: 2014 Dove Men+Care Dad Portrayal Study

The Father's Rights Movement is not anti-mom, anti-woman, and/or anti-gay.
We are ANTI-UNFAIRNESS!

We only support organizations who show an understanding that children need both parents, and that either parent is equally capable of the choice to perpetrate hate or declare peace.

Custodia Compartida celebra su primera jornada comarcal

Divorcio y Derechos de los Hijos.

10 derechos de los hij@s de divorciados

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 3 hours ago

Jueves, 28 de Noviembre, 2013 Enlaces: Página de FACEBOOK: *Hijos de padres divorciados* - Los 10 problemas de los hijos de padres divorciados - Atrapados entre papá y mamá - Navidad, una encrucijada para hijos de padres divorciados - Separación con hijos: 10 consejos para padres divorciados más enlaces al final de la entrada (en "*más información*") *Patricia Maguet Levy * Facebook http://www.facebook.com/psicologialafamilia http://www.psicologiavendrell.com/ Twitter @psicolafamilia No tenemos noticias de que se haya celebrado una convención internacional de *hijos e hijas de padres s... more »

Congreso del estado aprueba la "Alienación Parental"

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 13 hours ago

Jueves, 28 de Noviembre, 2013 *MÉXICO * *-* Iniciativa que reforma el Código Civil Federal para erradicar la conducta de alienación parental. Enlaces: - Cónyuge que se dedicó a los hijos recibirá indemnización: SCJN - Efectos de la custodia compartida en los niños y adolescentes, experiencia extrajera - Una juez ordena que tres menores vuelvan a México con su padre - Las dos versiones enfrentadas en el caso de los hijos de Isabel Monrós - Un padre lucha por recuperar a su hija retenida por su excuñada en México - La falta de la custodia compartida en México es un problema social - Trib... more »

Mucho dolor, poca justicia

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 5 hours ago

Viernes, 13 de Septiembre, 2013 *PARAGUAY* Enlaces: - PADRES POR SIEMPRE - Paraguay - Entrevista 11/09/2013 Radio Cardinal AM(youtube) - III Charla sobre Síndrome de Alienación Parental página de FACEBOOk de "Padres por Siempre" en Paraguay UNIDOS CONTRA EL SÍNDROME DE ALIENACIÓN PARENTAL Padres decidieron unirse para luchar férrea y legalmente contra la alienación parental. Cada uno de ellos, separados ya de quienes fueron sus parejas, sufren el no poder ver ni educar a sus hijos. “Padres por siempre”, se define como una organización dispuesta a visibilizar un grave problema familia... more »

We only support organizations who show an understanding that children need both parents, and that either parent is equally capable of the choice to perpetrate hate or declare peace.

PADRES Y ABUELOS POR LOS NIÑOS SEPARADOS DE SU FAMILIA

- ROSARIO, ARGENTINA

CUSTODIA PATERNA - Viernes, 3 de Mayo, 2013 *Publicado el 17/03/2013 *
Audio institucional de nuestra organización:
¿Que pedimos a las autoridades?
Nuestra lucha se centra el derecho de los niños a un vínculo sano con sus dos padres y toda su familia luego de un divorcio o separación.
- ¡NO MAS NIÑOS REHENES DEL DIVORCIO!

Los papás saben tanto como las mamás

viso at CUSTODIA PATERNA - 4 hours ago

Jueves, 28 de Noviembre, 2013 Enlaces: - Los niños sin referente paterno pueden volverse adultos agresivos - ESTUDIO CIENTIFICO - EL PROCESO DE VIOLENCIA EN LA DESPARENTALIZACION - Divorcio: las consecuencias de vivir sin un padre. - Huérfanos de padre en vida - Padrectomía, la otra violencia familiar - María Calvo Charro, "Paternidad escamoteada" más enlaces al final de la entrada (acceder a traves de "*más información* "). *Patricia Maguet Levy* Facebook http://www.facebook.com/psicologialafamilia http://www.psicologiavendrell.com/ Twitter @psicolafamilia En un artículo publicado en la... more »

Monday

The Economy and Divorce

HOW THE ECONOMIC CRISIS IMPACTS DIVORCE, CHILD SUPPORT, ALIMONY, EQUITABLE DISTRIBUTION OF PROPERTY AND DEBT

Posted by Lawyer - Tanya Helfand on February 21, 2012

The main obligation of the Courts and for attorneys is to obtain a fair result. As the economic downturn continues, the Courts are having to make rulings to accommodate job losses...

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