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Wednesday

Using a child as a control mechanism is a domestic violence behavior

Ripped Apart

Divorced dads, domestic violence, and the systemic bias against men in King County family court.

By Nina Shapiro

Jim's first indication that his life was about to be turned upside down came the night he got home from work and was approached by an off-duty sheriff's deputy.

"Are you Jim?" the deputy asked.
"I am," he replied.
The deputy then informed him that not only was he no longer welcome inside his own house, he wasn't allowed even to collect his things. The officer handed him a suitcase his wife had packed and a $3,000 check—also from his wife, who earned far more than he did.
"What are the grounds?" Jim asked.
"It's all in there," the deputy said, thrusting a sheaf of papers into his hand.

The papers informed him his wife was filing for divorce. Worse, she had requested, and been granted, a temporary protection order based on allegations of domestic violence. The order—issued at a hearing that took place without Jim—took effect immediately. It required him to vacate his house and refrain from "any contact whatsoever" with either his wife or his 3-year-old son.
In it, his wife wrote that she felt like she had to "walk on eggshells" around Jim due to his unpredictable temper. He would scream to such an extent that "veins in his neck were bulging" and "spittle from his lips was hitting me in the face." She also described him yelling at their dogs, roughly handling their cat, and driving aggressively and recklessly.

But there's one thing she never claimed—that Jim had ever hit her or their son. Nor did she accuse Jim of threatening either of them.
Jim, an insurance agent periodically unemployed, had at times performed more child-care duties than his wife, according to a court-assigned social worker hired to assess each spouse's parenting skills. 

Observing interactions between Jim and his son, and talking to friends, relatives, and neighbors, she called the bond between them "relatively strong, happy, interactive, comfortable, playful, and full of physical play and affection." Yet it would still take 15 months for Jim to be allowed to have normal visits with his son.

Had he been charged with domestic violence in criminal court, where guilt must be proved beyond a reasonable doubt and the standards of due process are high, this might not have happened. But Jim's fate was decided in a very different venue: family court.

It's a court like no other—a hugely busy and rancorous place where the most personal aspects of people's lives are not only on display, but judged and reshaped in proceedings that often last no longer than 20 minutes. Appointed commissioners, rather than elected judges, make many of the most crucial decisions. And the standard of evidence (known as "preponderance of the evidence") is the lowest allowed by law.


Tuesday

Post Traumatic Stress Disorder because of this Family Court Judge

Florida Supreme Court Committee to Host Public Meeting on Future of Florida Courts

Corte Suprema de la Florida Comité acogerá reunión pública sobre el futuro de los tribunales de la Florida

Rally for the love and protection of our children and families. 

Miami Dade County Commission Chambers 111 N.W. 1st Street, Second Floor Miami, Florida 33128

Reason: Almost on a daily basis we hear of cases of children dying while in custody of the Family courts/Department of Children and Families. 

Florida is the leader in the nation in these deaths, 533+ a few months ago, as per a Miami Herald report :http://pubsys.miamiherald.com/projects/2014/innocents-lost/database/].

This rally is the first in a series of events that will unite the body of Christ in defense of “the least one of these”, the children of our nation. "The King will reply, 'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.' (Matthew 25:40). We are calling all churches in Miami to participate. Please, spread the word.



Convocatoria por el amor y la protección de nuestros niños y familias
Febrero 23, 2015. De 3pm a 7pm en el Miami Dade County Commission Chambers 111 N.W. 1st Street, Second Floor Miami, Florida 33128

Motivo: casi a diario oímos de los casos de niños que mueren mientras que están bajo la custodia de los tribunales de familia / DCF. Florida es el líder en la nación en estas muertes, 533+ hace unos meses, según un informe del miami herald: http://pubsys.miamiherald.com/projects/2014/innocents-lost/database/],

Esta convocatoria es la primera en una serie de eventos que unirán al cuerpo de Cristo en la defensa “de los más pequeños de estos”, los niños de nuestra nación. "El Rey les responderá: En verdad os digo que cuanto hicisteis a uno de los más pequeños de estos hermanos y hermanas míos, a mí lo hicisteis."(Mateo 25:40). Hacemos un llamado a todas las iglesias en Miami para participar. Por favor, difundir la palabra.


Brought to you by Leaders of Peace Foundation, and Family Unity Worldwide:  www.fundacionlideresdepaz.org/www.NewJudge.com.

As an example of the physical and psychological child abuse we are trying to prevent, and of those who are trying to destroy American values and foundation: In God We Trust.Gay Judge prevents Christian man from praying with his children. As a consequence, child ends up with Major Depression and Post Traumatic Stress Disorder because of this Judge: 


A General Summary of the Proceedings of the First Annual Meeting at The Florida Bar.

In crafting and opposing legislation, the Bar's goal is simple: write family law to maximize judicial discretion in order to maximize litigation. The Bar wants to maximize litigation so that divorce lawyers can charge vast sums to pick the last remaining dollars off the bones of the formerly intact family.

I urge Florida citizens to wake up to this hypocrisy and ask Scott to sign the alimony bill that passed both chambers by more than a 2-1 margin.

Gordon E. Finley, professor of psychology emeritus, Florida International University, Miami


Dear Member of the Maine Judiciary Committee of the Legislature,Re: Judging judges: hearings on judicial appointments...
Posted by Children's Rights on Thursday, August 13, 2015
We welcome a chance to respond to Divorce Corp‘s invitation to speak out on the topic, “oversight of judges” or the...
Posted by Children's Rights on Thursday, August 13, 2015

Miami-Dade Police Injured Parent By Providing False Police Report For Family Court ~ #StandupforZoraya

What happens in Florida when visitation rights are unreasonably denied?

NOTHING!!!!

"This is not a question of fathers' or mothers' rights; it is about protecting the rights of children to have two loving parents fully involved in their lives wherever possible, to the benefit of the children, their families, and wider society,"  


Professional Compliance Bureau (PCB) Major Shimminger conducted a PCB investigation on the reporting officer but failed to properly investigate false police report by woman/mother who fabricated an incident of domestic violence.

The MDPD never contacted the father about the alleged incident which the mother reported 26 hours later. The mother obtained an "information only" police report in which the mother and her attorney used later in a biased (man-hater) judge's DV courtroom of Honorable Victoria Brennen. Mother violated Florida Statutes 741 and 837 and the MDPD did nothing! 


The father, upon finding a police report existed that was false, he filed a police report against the mother for making a false police report and spoke to Captain Bollinger-Heller about it...she suggested he should just "let this go". She also referred him to an MDPD victim's advocate. The father sent a complete, clear, and concise report back to the MDPM Major Herrera of the Domestic Crimes Bureau requesting further investigation.

Judge Victoria R. Brennan

This matter is well documented and fills half of a banker’s box. There is evidence to prove police misconduct. The father eventually became disabled because of the trauma he suffered and continues to suffer. The father has known the mother since 1990 when they started dating and there has NEVER been any incident of domestic violence. The father filed a paternity suit for his father's rights to his daughter and the mother was advised by her attorney to make the false allegations to the police to gain an upper hand in the family court case.
4-3-2009

We can provide all the documents, police reports, and case numbers if interested in pursuing this case. 

The father also contacted State Attorney Katherine Fernandez Rundel on 3 occasions only to be referred back to the MDPD. The corresponded directly with the now retired Director Loftus who referred him to his subordinates, Major Shimminger and Major Herrera. The father still battles these false allegations until today.



A family justice system shake-up giving children legal rights to maintain relationships with both parents after separation has been criticized by the man who chaired a review of the rules.

"This is not a question of fathers' or mothers' rights; it is about protecting the rights of children to have two loving parents fully involved in their lives wherever possible, to the benefit of the children, their families, and wider society," 

How Parental Alienation Syndrome Brainwashes the Child




 





Childrens Rights Florida — 1 star
I wish you well and hope you know that you’re not at all alone. Life can give us skills whether we want them or not. In time, every father facing custody and court cases involving family law will develop a 'thicker skin' as we all know that nothing is more personal then an attack against your human rights, your rights as a parent and your ability to parent a child.

I would like to express a very important concept today. This is extremely bold and progressive. I believe their is no 'movements' in the world today to change the opinion of culture in the way that will actually build up momentum. I would like to give you an example. (the example is not aimed to defame or harm homosexual couples in any way, simply a random example.)




Sunday

Happy Birthday ~~ #StandupforZoraya





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