Post-traumatic Stress in the Rupture of Parent-child Relationships
March 12, 2016
Dear President Obama:
Dear Representative Diaz-Balart:
Dear Senator Nelson:
Dear Senator Rubio:Dear Governor Scott:
Dear Representative Diaz-Balart:
Dear Senator Nelson:
Dear Senator Rubio:Dear Governor Scott:
I am a divorced FIT Father of a boy (from marriage) and a girl (unwed DNA proven bio-dad).
I have no problem paying child support as proven by my payment records.
That is until the Miami-Dade County 11th Judicial Circuit Family Court destroyed my life, and caused negligent infliction of severe emotional distress which has caused a "medically documented" injury by a Complex Sub-category of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. In a nutshell I fear the Family Court. Additionally, I am the victim of medical malpractice by Psychiatrist Dr. Carter who has a case pending against him by the Florida Department of Health.Reluctantly I filed for disability in 2010 and still have not prevailed despite the work of Social Security Advocates Binder and Binder. I had to filed bankruptcy in 2010; but that is typical (and statistically proven by the movie Divorce Corp released in Jan 2014) of anyone that has to fight in America's Family Courts.
Answer this simple question:Why does the Broward County FL 17th Judicial Circuit Family Court have absolutely no concern (nor does his mom), since 2002 to today, to be in my son's life with joint custody?
Recently I appeared before Judge Dale C. Cohen on my motion requesting a continuance on contempt proceedings so I could take my son to the Pacific Northwest for a month during the summer. Honorable Judge Cohen said, "have a good time".
Thereby establishing my parental fitness.
And the Florida 11th Judicial Circuit Family Court denies any access (visitation/timesharing) with me, my son (her brother), my family to my daughter?? My daughter could've traveled with her brother and dad to see Mount Rainier, go to a Pow Wow, learned about Lewis and Clark, and so many things...
Zoraya would've loved it!!
All this happen when I did the right thing and hired a lawyer to file a Petition for Paternity (Right to Parent my daughter). Case No. 2008-029595 began on December 4th, 2008. It continues today.
As of today the Florida 11th Judicial Circuit Family Court denies any access (visitation / timesharing) with me, my son (her brother), my family to my daughter?? WHY???
This is Emotional Child Abuse...plain, simple, AND ESTABLISHED.
The case 2008-029595 of the Florida 11th Judicial Circuit is proof of Civil and Human Rights Violations. Not even the Department of Children and Families will respond to my plea to help me stop the proven emotional child abuse of my daughter Zoraya. Please help her or please help me to help her...I beg you!
In June of 2004 my son's mom and I got divorced. I have known my son's mom since 1992.I have known my daughter's mom since 1990 and we dated until 1994. In November of 2004 she contacted me and we reunited, dated, and lived together beginning in January of 2005. Our daughter was born in 2006.
We got engaged in Paris in October 2007. We broke up in June 2008 and I moved out. I focused on my work, my children, and family. As a District Sales Manager for a Multi-National Company I had to travel internationally every week between Mondays and Fridays. I only had the weekend for my children.
As we were still friends I was able to have normal time-sharing with our daughter (by mutual agreement) during the weekends that is until October 5th, 2008 (our daughter's 2nd birthday).
After spending a "family" day out (Mom, Dad, my son David, and our daughter Zoraya) celebrating Zoraya's birthday, mom tells me that "since she didn't need 'her' father Zoraya doesn't need me". Those words I will never forget.
After Zoraya's birthday, as promised, mom began to deny me any visit with our daughter. Mom served me with a Temporary Restraining Order on the 2nd week of October. During the DV hearing on October 27th, that mom and I attended without lawyers, mom and I admitted to Honorable Judge Cohn that "there were never any acts of domestic violence since we've known each other" and mom answered "no" when the Judge asked her if she felt I was a danger to her and or our daughter.
Honorable Judge Don S. Cohn denied and dismissed mom's petition stating "No Just Cause". The Judge never addressed how I was going to see our daughter leaving me in limbo and afraid of mom.
Mom's Manipulation of Family Court Judges
I was with my daughter on November 1st, 2008 when her mom dropped her off at the hospital to visit me. My sister met mom in the lobby and brought Zoraya to my hospital room. Also present was my mom, dad, son, his mom and step dad, and my sister's husband.
In December of 2008 I filed my initial Petition, A Paternity Suit. I paid an Attorney a $3,000 fee/retainer. I asked for 3 things; to pay Child Support, Shared Parental Responsibility, and normal and reasonable Time-sharing.
Then from the 2nd week in November until February 18th I was able to spend a little time with my daughter at the day care that we enrolled her in since she was three months old and which was 50 yards from my parents home. I only visited my daughter at the day care center so I could avoid her mom so she wouldn't make any further false allegations against me.
On February 8th our new Judge, Honorable Judge Dennis, ordered mom and I to Family Court Services for Alienation Intervention, Co-Parenting, Family Counseling and Time-sharing Issues.
But then on February 18th mom filed another Temporary (DV) Restraining Order with the help of her new lawyer. Mom and lawyer planned this from December 18th, 2008.
Mom fabricated and lied to Miami-Dade Police Officers on December 18th, 2008 to obtain an "information-only" police report as evidence in the upcoming Domestic Violence hearing they had planned to file. Filing false allegations on their petition and alleging an act of domestic violence that never happen but reported on an information only police report at the Miami-Dade Police Department in the Town of Miami Lakes on December 18th, 2008 is a crime according to Judge Dennis.
Maybe it is because on December 16th, 2008, two days before mom made false allegations to Miami-Dade Police Officers, Honorable Judge Scott Bernstein ordered mom NOT to remove our daughter from Miami-Dade County and to DNA testing in an Emergency Hearing that my Attorney (Beatriz Cera) requested.
And the Restraining Order relieved mom from having to comply with Judge Dennis' Orders to both mom and dad to report to Family Court Services for Alienation Intervention, Co-Parenting and Time-sharing Issues Counseling.
I did not get a hearing until April 3rd on mom's February 18th Petition for the Restraining Order. During that hearing I told Judge Brennan (former DV Judge) the same thing the mom and I told the Honorable Judge Cohn on October 27th; “that there have never been any acts of domestic violence between mom and me".
In addition I brought a witness that swore that I was not anywhere near the location listed on an "information only" police report (that mom obtained December 18, 2008) with a fabricated incident of which I had no knowledge. It was admitted as evidence by Judge Brennan.
Judge Brennan unjustifiably ordered a one-year "No Contact" Restraining Order. I complained telling Judge Brennan that "I felt that not being able to see my daughter was unfair and that it was equivalent to court-ordered child abuse by parental alienation" A prediction that has become reality.
As I was saying this Judge Brennan angrily closed the hearing and began to leave the courtroom and that is when I placed an envelope containing a Notice of Unavailability in the paternity case (a legal document) on the opposing party's table in front of mom in the courtroom. Judge Brennan, alerted by mom's attorney, immediately returned to the bench and called us back to our places and without even checking the envelope Judge Brennan said I violated the just-issued restraining order and ordered me to 26-week batterers' intervention course.
One year after our first hearing before Judge Cohn I was terminated from my job due to the (1) Excessive Court Orders; I requested time-off so I could comply with the court's orders in order to be able be with my daughter. And (2) the other reason, well lets put it this way; Do you have any idea how devastating it feels when people (mom, her lawyer, bad judge), acting under the color of law, hold your children hostage while the huge railroad train called the judicial system runs you over? Then wondering every second of the day if your child is safe?
It is torture for those parents who CARE about their kids and I know MOST of you readers are caring, loving parents. I know because I have met them in the programs you shoved down my throat.
In December of 2009 Judge Dennis finally allowed me to see my daughter when she ordered "Temporary" Supervised Visitation at the day care center until I complied with her and Judge Brennan's orders.
After two full days of trial in December 2009 and February 2010 the Final Judgment finally arrived on July 2010. As I petitioned, the Final Judgment basically states that I will pay child support and have Shared Parental Responsibility.
BUT...On the Time-sharing Issue Judge Dennis states in the Final Judgment’s Paragraph 31 that I would get "normal and reasonable" Time-sharing with my daughter once I complied with "all" the Honorable Court's Orders to me to attend co-parenting, batters' intervention, and so forth.
No problem in being with my son because his mom knows and has admitted to this Court that I am a good father, family man, and hard worker.
Please review the public court records at the Lawson E. Thomas Courthouse Center (33128) to see the excessive, abusive, and Unconstitutional Court Orders and the Court's Requirements preventing me from being the involved father that I want to be, because she is part of my "life", and therefore I have the "liberty" to be with my children and have a father-daughter relationship, and most importantly it makes her, my son/her brother, and me very "happy".
Deprivation of rights under color of law falls under Title 18, U.S.C., Section 242. This statute makes it a crime for any person acting under color of law, statute, ordinance, regulation, or custom to willfully deprive or cause to be deprived from any person those rights, privileges, or immunities secured or protected by the Constitution and laws of the United States.
I AM an important part of my daughter's life. Judges and lawyers come and go but I and all Dads are always going to be right there for their kids.
So, I have "completely and absolutely" complied with ALL of
the Court's Orders.
So, I have "completely and absolutely" complied with ALL of the Court's Orders.
The 8 Page Final Judgment clearly states that I am a "FIT" parent...see for yourself.
There’s absolutely no mention whatsoever that I am or have ever been an "at-risk" Parent. There is the mention of the false domestic violence incident and restraining order...all false as aforesaid.
And if I was an "at-risk" parent then how come my time-sharing with my son, which is liberal, unhampered and unfettered since my separation/divorce in 2002, is not and/or has never ever been interrupted or challenged?
Just because I fall into the "UN-wed biological father" classification of the state's laws is not a good enough excuse to take away my daughter's father.
My daughter is now 6 and despite this long court case, thousands of dollars of legal fees on both sides and injury to my daughter nothing much has changed. Yesterday I gazed out the window watching fireworks and was really missing my angel but I cannot call her because I am scared of her mom’s false allegations and lies, she doesn't call me and knowing she is only a couple of mile away hurts like hell.
My ex-fiancée has hurt me for years on end and she seems relentless in erasing me from our daughter’s life and I am reduced to nothing more than a broken-hearted dad that battles on for justice in the courts, so that someone will make my ex encourage our daughter to see me as an equal parent and let me be a part of her life, good times and bad.
I have a lot to give and a lot to teach her but the only people she gets to see is her mothers’ friends and family, not a true representation of her whole family, which to me is abuse and falls under the title of parental alienation. This is the act of one parent trying to stop meaningful contact with the other parent.
It is time to stand up and make family laws fairer to stop child abuse being carried out and to promote shared parenting in the family courts.
I have begun the 3rd round of my family court case. My case number is 2008-029595 in the 11th Judicial Circuit in Miami-Dade County, Florida.
They, the "opposing party" (I hate to use that description), have complained to the Court that I have filed 3 Petitions; the initial Petition in the Paternity Suit and 2 follow-up Petitions for Modification. That is correct...and so what?? Obviously it is within my rights to file a petition in a family court case if and when there's a substantial change(s). And there are!!
They, the opposing party and the Courts, should know by now that I will never give up on my daughter AND that I will file as many Petitions for Modification as needed. Do they really think I am going give up or that the Court is going to order me to stop the fight for my daughter to have a normal relationship with her Father?
A Family Court Services Report regarding the 12 supervised visits dated January 29th, 2013 states:
"After greeting, Mr. Inguanzo immediately engaged Zoraya in conversation and play. Father and daughter discussed different topics such as school, science, books, a trip to France, physical education, Zoraya's older brother, and other relatives, holidays, etc.
Mr. Inguanzo also practiced speaking Spanish with Zoraya. Mr. Inguanzo frequently demonstrated physical affection, to which Zoraya allowed and reciprocated. Mr. Inguanzo displayed behaviors indicative of being nurturing patient, and attentive to Zoraya's needs.
Zoraya appeared to enjoy her father's company. Zoraya and her father displayed a very good level of interaction." This report is written by Ms. Laura Escober, L.C.S.W. based on her observation and the observation of Ms. Maria Puentes, M.S.W. and Mr. Rafael Castro, Ph.D.
I have not seen and or spoken with Zoraya since January 24th, 2015.
This is how the "system" has failed my daughter Zoraya and this is how this blog was born. There's more to come so please stay tuned and please pray (for Zoraya's sake) that the Courts will finally realize how the opposing party has purposefully and intentionally interfered "in reckless disregard" with a child's relationship with her father and that the Court will make the "right and only" last decision that needs to be made in this family court case. That Zoraya can have her dad back!
KNOW THIS: Much of what I have enjoyed most in life is being threatened by reprehensible governmental actions. Those in government “elected” or appointed to represent our best interests: yours, mine, and those of all our families, are not acting within their powers to protect and preserve our GOD-Given unalienable rights to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness. Many are undeniably doing the opposite.
In pursuit of what is true, right, and just
“Justice is a part of the human makeup. And if you deprive a person of Justice on a continuous basis, it’s really an attack (and not to get religious or anything) but it’s an attack on the human soul. We have, as societies, evolved ideas of Justice and we have done that because human nature needs Justice and it needs resolution. And if you deprive somebody of that long enough they’re going to have reactions…” ~ Juli T. Star-Alexander – Executive Director, Redress, Inc.
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Everyone was not only gratified to see PAAO at the event, they all also acknowledged that PA is either a form of Domestic violence or on the continuum of Domestic Violence behaviors.