Showing posts with label I Love My Son. Show all posts
Showing posts with label I Love My Son. Show all posts

Tuesday

"Alienated children seem to have a secret wish for someone to call their bluff...


..., compelling them to reconnect with the parent they claim to hate."

 The first installment of a three-part series examining (1) the impact of parental alienation on children, (2) the effects of parental alienation on parents, and (3) programs, services and interventions that combat alienation and seek to reunite estranged parents and their children.

What children of divorce most want and need is to maintain healthy and strong relationships with both of their parents, and to be shielded from their parents' conflicts. Some parents, however, in an effort to bolster their parental identity, create an expectation that children choose sides. In more extreme situations, they foster the child’s rejection of the other parent. In the most extreme cases, children are manipulated by one parent to hate the other, despite children’s innate desire to love and be loved by both their parents.
Parental alienation involves the “programming” of a child by one parent to denigrate the other “targeted” parent, in an effort to undermine and interfere with the child's relationship with that parent, and is often a sign of a parent’s inability to separate from the couple conflict and focus on the needs of the child. Such denigration results in the child’s emotional rejection of the targeted parent, and the loss of a capable and loving parent from the life of the child. Psychiatrist Richard Gardner developed the concept of "parental alienation syndrome" 20 years ago, defining it as, "a disorder that arises primarily in the context of child custody disputes. Its primary manifestation is the child's campaign of denigration against a parent, a campaign that has no justification. It results from the combination of a programming (brainwashing) parent's indoctrination and the child's own contributions to the vilification of the target parent." Children’s views of the targeted parent are almost exclusively negative, to the point that the parent is demonized and seen as evil.
As Amy Baker writes, parental alienation involves a set of strategies, including bad-mouthing the other parent, limiting contact with that parent, erasing the other parent from the life and mind of the child (forbidding discussion and pictures of the other parent), forcing the child to reject the other parent, creating the impression that the other parent is dangerous, forcing the child to choose between the parents by means of threats of withdrawal of affection, and belittling and limiting contact with the extended family of the targeted parent. In my own research on non-custodial parents who have become disengaged from their children’s lives (Kruk, 2011), I found that most lost contact involuntarily, many as a result of parental alienation. Constructive alternatives to adversarial methods of reconnecting with their children were rarely available to these alienated parents.

Parental alienation is more common than is often assumed: Fidler and Bala (2010) report both an increasing incidence and increased judicial findings of parental alienation; they report estimates of parental alienation in 11-15% of divorces involving children; Bernet et al (2010) estimate that about 1% of children and adolescents in North America experience parental alienation.

Friday

Happy Birthday to My Son 2013



EXCLUSIVE

Wednesday

10 Sacrifices A Good Father Makes For His Child | All Pro Dad


10 Sacrifices A Good Father Makes For His Child | All Pro Dad


Remain an Equal Parent to your Child!

Thursday

Happy Birthday - #ilovemyson




I Love You Always David,

Dad

Tuesday

Happy Birthday David 2011 - A name is much more than just a name!

D is for desire, your thoughts do aspire or for  dA name is much more than just a name!


A is for affirm, the certainty of knowledge or for abundant, your cheer knows no bounds.


V is for valentine, a sweetheart you are! Or for 
volunteer, your giving side.


I is for inspire, others seek your guidance or for 
interest, you show in others.


D is for dashing, the romantic you! Or for 
diamond, the brilliance you shine.




Monday

Happy Birthday DK




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