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What every Parent should know about Children without Fathers

Children NEED and deserve to have BOTH parents in their lives, the balance needs to be equal. Fathers should not be punished and branded and made to feel inadequate because a relationship with their former partner has deteriorated.

We are honest fathers, not drunks, drug users, nor 'deadbeat'. All we want is to share in the upbringing of our children, be part of their lives, and have it enforced when our children are held against us as if for ransom.

Men's rights, children's rights, Parental Alienation, Hostile-aggressive Parenting, depression, suicide, anxiety, delinquency, antisocial behavior disorders

- ALL of these are the results of an unbalanced family law system.

Petition and Legal Pleading to the: "Florida Family Court of Miami-Dade, Florida DEMANDING they STOP Denial of Reasonable Parent/Child Contact - Stand Up For Zoraya"

Letters from Children to Family Court Judges

Families Civil Liberties Union

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Please contact Greg Roberts with all stories of Family Court Corruption @ groberts@fclu.org. We are compiling data for a growing investigation. 201-220-4897 if you have inside info on judges and lawyers involved in provable corruption.

Post by Stop Mental Child Abuse.

Post by Applying The Law In Family Law.

Shining a Light on Parental Alienation | Bubbles of Love Day

Supporting children with 'Bubbles of Love' - ABC 33/40

Bubbles of Love: Shining a Light on Parental Alienation | CullmanSense

"Our current system of resolving child custody disputes rarely considers either children’s needs from children’s own perspective, or current research on child custody outcomes. What is needed is a new standard, a "best interests of the child from the perspective of the child" standard, and an approach to child custody determination that is built on a strong foundation of empirical research."

Sixteen Arguments in Support of Co-Parenting

What the Latest Research is Saying about the Best Interests of Children by Edward Kruk Ph.D

Displeasing the Alienating Parent

Fear Reaction to Displeasing the Alienating Parent
The Fourth Ingredient of Parental Alienation

This is the fourth in a series of posts devoted to discussion of the four criteria found in cases where parental alienation is present.

Deterioration in the Parent Child Relationship
The Third Ingredient of Parental Alienation

This is the third in a series of four posts devoted to the four behavioral criteria that are all present in cases of parental alienation. These criteria were first described in an article authored by myself and family attorney, Michael Walsh. The article was first published in the Florida Bar Journal and then was republished as the lead article in the Minnesota Bar Journal.

Access and Visitation Blocking
The Second Ingredient of Parental Alienation

This is the second in a series of four posts devoted to the four criteria that are found in parental alienation cases. As a reference point to this, I would remind the reader that this series of posts is related to an article authored by myself and a Florida Attorney, Michael Walsh. The original purpose of the article was to provide Family Law attorneys with a kind of template as to what to look for in these cases. It was written in such a way that one could potentially review the file and make a fairly good speculative guess as to the presence or absence of parental alienation.

Access and Visitation Blocking
The First Ingredient of Parental Alienation

This is the first of four weekly posts regarding the four criteria which are present in cases were Parental Alienation is present. These posts are derived from an article that was published in the Florida Bar Journal in 1999.

Not Allowed To Love A Parent - Redacted Transcript Family Court

Post by Childrens Rights Florida.

The following is my argument to the Court in the Parental Alienation case, Nov 2014. Identities are protected by substituting information contained inside the parentheses.

CLOSING ARGUMENT BY MR. HUGUENOR:
YOUR HONOR, DR. (ABC). FAMILY COURT SERVICES FOUND GREAT CONFLICT, (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA) WAS BEING PLACED IN THE MIDDLE OF THE CONFLICT AND PHYSICAL HARM TO (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA).
DR. (ABC) STARTED THE CONJOINT COUNSELING. HE (THE DOCTOR) TESTIFIED THAT HE WAS AWARE OF THOSE FINDINGS. HE TESTIFIED THAT IT WAS PART OF HIS PURPOSE TO EVALUATE WHAT WAS CAUSING THE CONFLICT AND HARM AND THE PLACING (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA) IN THE MIDDLE.
DR. (ABC) TESTIFIED THAT HE FOUND NO INCIDENT OF (THE TARGETED PARENT) CREATING CONFLICT. THE CONFLICT WAS CAUSED BY (THE PARENTAL ALIENATION PERPETRATING PARENT).
(THE PERPETRATING PARENT) DID NUMEROUS THINGS THAT PLACED THE CHILD INTO THE MIDDLE OF THE CONFLICT. (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) HAD EXPRESSED TO THE (CHILD—VICTIM OF PA) THAT THE (TARGETED PARENT) WAS ESSENTIALLY OF NO VALUE. (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) DID THAT DIRECTLY TO DR. (ABC) IN HIS OFFICE. HE FOUND THAT THE CONFLICT WAS SIGNIFICANTLY HARMFUL TO THE CHILD (VICTIM OF PA). HE FOUND THAT IT WOULD BE DETRIMENTAL TO THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD, DETRIMENTAL TO THE CHILD'S WELFARE FOR JOINT CUSTODY, JOINT PHYSICAL CUSTODY TO CONTINUE.
(THE DOCTOR) DESCRIBED THE SITUATION AS STAGE THREE OF PARENTAL ALIENATION. HE DESCRIBED THAT (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA) WAS NOT ALLOWED TO LOVE (THE TARGETED PARENT) IN THE (PERPETRATING PARENT’S) HOME. (THE CHILD) WAS NOT ALLOWED TO RESPECT THE (TARGETED PARENT). HE SAW (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA) AT TIMES WHEN (THE CHILD) HAD COME FROM (THE PERPETRATING PARENT)'S CUSTODY AND TIMES WHEN (THE CHILD) CAME FROM (THE TARGETED PARENT)'S CUSTODY, AND HE FOUND A COMPLETELY DIFFERENT CHILD, A CHILD WHO WAS HEALTHY IN (THE TARGETED PARENT)'S CUSTODY.
HE FOUND NO EVIDENCE OF SUBSTANCE ABUSE, ALTHOUGH (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) REPEATED SUBSTANCE ABUSE OVER AND OVER AND OVER.
AND THERE WERE TWO STATEMENTS FROM (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA). ONE, EXHIBIT (X), IN WHICH (THE CHILD VICTIM OF PA) IS DESCRIBING SUBSTANCE ABUSE (OF THE TARGET PARENT) TAKING UP THE STATEMENTS OF THE (PERPETRATING PARENT). DR. (ABC) TESTIFIED THAT THIS IS COMMON IN THIS TYPE OF A SITUATION BECAUSE (THE PERPETRATING PARENT)'S LOVE IS CONDITIONAL LOVE, AND THE CHILD QUICKLY LEARNS THAT (THE CHILD) MUST ADOPT THE ATTITUDES OF THE (PERPETRATING PARENT) IN ORDER TO BE IN A POSITION OF LOVE WITH THE (PERPETRATING PARENT).
(THE CHILD VICTIM) WANTS TO LOVE THE (PERPETRATING PARENT). (THE CHILD) WANTS TO LOVE THE (TARGETED PARENT). (THE CHILD) DOES LOVE BOTH PARENTS, AND THIS (PARENTAL ALIENATION) IS CHILD ABUSE, AS DR. (ABC) TESTIFIED, FOR (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) TO ORCHESTRATE A SITUATION WITH (THE CHILD VICTIM) WHERE (PERPETRATING PARENT) IS TRYING TO CAUSE (THE CHILD VICTIM) TO REJECT AND WITHDRAW FROM (THE CHILD’S) (TARGETED PARENT) 100 PERCENT.
BASED ON THIS TESTIMONY, WE REQUEST SOLE PHYSICAL AND SOLE LEGAL CUSTODY OF (THE CHILD VICTIM) TO THE (TARGETED PARENT), AND TO TAKE (THE PA PERPETRATING PARENT)'S VISITATION DOWN TO MINIMAL, AND HAVE (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) WORK WITH A THERAPIST, WHOEVER, OF (PERPETRATING PARENT’S) CHOICE, WHO WILL THEN WORK WITH DR. (ABC) AND WILL TRY TO TRACK, OR THEY WILL TRY TO TRACK PROGRESS THAT (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) IS MAKING THROUGH ACTIONS, NOT JUST WORDS, WHERE (THE PERPETRATING PARENT) WILL NO LONGER PUT (THE CHILD VICTIM) AT RISK.
THANK YOU.
Thomas M. Huguenor originally shared to Guys With Kids - Important

When I was successful in prosecuting a child custody parental alienation (PA) case, a couple of weeks ago, I was thankful because PA is child abuse that is rarely proven. When I say "proven" I mean to the extent that the Court significantly reduces the parenting time for the PP (parenting who is perpetrating PA). In a PA case, which I handled, a year ago, the Court's expert witness found that the PP had committed only acts of "bad parenting" although it was established, through another independent psychologist, that this parent had committed 20 acts of PA; and that the victim child had completely withdrawn from the Targeted Parent. Many experts are reluctant to acknowledge that, or they simply cannot recognize when, significant acts of PA have been committed. Also, many Family Court judges have had little or no training, or work experience with PA. So, frequently, even when the Court finds wrongful actions have been taken by a parent; there is no finding of PA and nothing other than a warning to the PP to stop this behavior. PA is not visible in the way that a physical beating would be. It can't be diagnosed by a police officer coming to a home after a 911 call. Please see the referenced article by Dr. Major which explains why PA is so hard to prove and, when it is, the finding rarely results in change of custody. However, allow me to conclude which the following: PA can be established in court. PA can be stopped and even reversed through appropriate court orders. In the next post I will include my closing argument to the Court so that you may see what factors I stressed as significant and my requested child custody modification orders.

Thomas M. Huguenor originally shared to Guys With Kids - Important

http://www.breakthroughparenting.com/PAS.htm #childcustodyparentalalienation

Family Courthouse CLOSED - "NO Supervised Visits Will Occur" ~ Ms. Luz Ospina, Supervisor

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Stand Up For Zoraya

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Mom says "It's Too Inconvenient" to give Dad visitation with Daughter and Judge Manno-Schurr agrees!!!

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Make a difference and create a kinder and more peaceful world for ALL CHILDREN

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Alicia has released a new song, “We Are Here,” from a place of deep compassion. The song is inspired by her desire to make a difference and create a kinder and more peaceful world for ALL CHILDREN. Alicia is using her voice to reinforce her vision of an empowered global community in which all people are heard, respected, equal, and treated with dignity. She’s rallying fans (you!) and challenging you to raise your voices for the causes you believe in— because real change begins with all of us.

Alicia says, “It’s not about me, it’s about WE.” This is OUR world. And #WeAreHere.

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Florida Say NO!

Post by Childrens Rights Florida.

Mario A Jimenez Jerez'sOpen Letter to prospective Florida Governor:

Dear Mr. Wyllie,

I am a Christian father of 4 children who is tire of the politics and corruption of these politicians, and even more with the judicial corruption in Family courts. We need a Governor that will stand for the people against these cronies.

I just learnt about you from a facebook contact, Glen Gibellina, who has also been a victim of PAS and the corruption of the family court system.

I would like to see the possibility of your support for a petition to protect the religious freedoms of Floridians. As unbelievable as it may seem, a corrupt judge removed my kids solely based on the fact that I prayed with them The armor of God of Ephesians 6, claiming that it mentioned the word devil, and that this somehow constituted some form of psychological abuse of my children. Bear in mind that I am a Sunday school teacher, and I pray this innocent prayer with kids all the time, that my kids were excelling in school at the time, that I had been investigated by DCF finding that the allegations were false, but I brought the final DCF report to Judge Pedro Echarte, perhaps one of the must corrupt judges currently sitting on the bench, and he refused to even read the report alleging that it had been done one day prior to him giving the order to do so, He then ordered me to do another evaluation with a psychologist friends with my ex’s attorneys, whom was also involved in the death of Nubia Barahona, and she basically gave the opinion that has prevented me to freely see my children since.

A year after our forced separation, my son developed PTSD, and major depression requiring medication for it with the subsequent effect of involuntary movements of his neck and shoulders. Please, see petition, and details of this outrageous judicial behavior here:www.SayNoToPAS.com.

It’s a true outrage what this people are doing, and we must unite to put a stop to it. I know that the polls still have you down, for double digits, but with God nothing is impossible.

If you can support and disseminate my petition, you can count with my solid support for your campaign for Governor here in Miami, FL. Perhaps, this can be the only way Floridians can get the protection from corruption that has plagued us for so long. God bless you and your family.

Thank you,

Mario Jimenez, M.D.
Marioaj01@yahoo.com

Post by Mario A Jimenez Jerez.

Do Fathers Not Deserve Equal Considerations?

We only support organizations who show an understanding that children need both parents, and that either parent is equally capable of the choice to perpetrate hate or declare peace.

WHY IS THIS A CRITICAL ISSUE?

Dr. Childress speaks with the child: 1-Introduction

Good for you David putting this out there for people to see and I just
love the pic you shared with us - lord what a pretty little girl bless you both this

Thanksgiving season. Have a good Turkey Day. Marie Ortiz.

+Marie Ortiz Hi Maria! So sorry I missed your message. Hope and pray you had a wonderful Thanksgiving. Yes...she is, thank you. She's the next Beyonce !

Thank you so much and may GOD always bless you and your family. I am seeing her again...supervised visitation ("round 2" since January 5th, 2013) at the courthouse. But my son can't go with me...Judge wouldn't allow it. Next Saturday will be the next visit...2nd of 12 total visits allowed.
Thank you also for your continued support to our cause. Wednesday will mark 5 years that I filed my Petition for my daughter. Very emotional time for me, Very unfair.
Have wonderful Christmas and New Years (in case I miss your messages again).
Always at your service I remain respectfully yours,
David
ILoveAndNeedMyDaughter.blogspot.com

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